freeze! (the wisdom of a dream)

well, i had a dream a couple of weeks ago, she said, and it probably doesn't mean anything...but it really disturbed me...

she is new to the dream group...she gave a bit of background of who she is...a long journey of difficult sobriety, fighting to avoid relapses, mostly succeeding, for years at a time, recently falling back, and now re-claiming her health...she has the determined mix of many recovering folks...seasoned with the struggles of life, scared by family history, sometimes overwhelmed by how to deal with the enormous strains of changing old patterns, how to healthfully detach from generational family expectations and demands...and still do her best to love them...without losing her soul and health....she's also very humble...sometimes giving and claiming for herself grace and acceptance...

i am with my family somewhere, she begins her dream...all of my brothers and family are there, other people, too...we are at some large, beautiful home, like an estate...lots of trees and grass...it is night...i think we have had a cookout or something...i am uncomfortable with some of the people, like a brother...i am walking toward a large beautiful swimming pool behind the house...suddenly! i see my mother fall into the pool, she is drowning...i think i scream for help...one of my brothers yells at me to jump into the pool to save her...he is up on a balcony, looking down...he is far up...i can't move!! i am frozen! then my brother leaps down, dives into the pool and pulls my mother out...everybody shames me and is angry with me for not jumping in...but i couldn't...i couldn't move...i wake up feeling so guilty...

we ask questions to gently understand her dream, not analyze or interpret...she is, she explains, the one who has been the giver and caretaker of others, that she in recent months had been the one to travel over a thousand miles to give care to her aged and dying mother...and how this "threw" her into that old pattern of being expected to take over...to lose herself, her soul in caring for others...while "they", many family members just stood by...taking advantage of her...she, torn by love, loyalty and past training, giving in, at least for a while...fighting to not get lost and finally relapsing, overwhelmed...now promising herself, with anger and clarity to never give in again...

so, as we, this group of dreamers, borrowed her dream, owned it for ourselves and explored our own journeys through her journey...feeling the terror and guilt of freezing in the face of death...began to become aware of how we, too, can get lost in the needs of others...how we get trained, programed to rescue others in such a way that we will drown in their needs, losing our soul...drowning ourselves in our own version of alcoholic sorrow...

i remembered out loud about the instinctual wisdom of the beautiful, sleek african gazelle...who survives the african prairie, survives the hunt of the fastest animal alive, the cheetah, by first, of all things...freezing...forcing the cheetah to blow her quiet stalking cover, to make the first move, not able to hide and kill... the cheetah is forced to run...exposing her stalking strategy...and the gazelle, now seeing where the danger is...explodes, darts, zig-zags...running its marathon of obstacle courses, tiring the cheetea...escaping...because, first...the gazelle knows to freeze...

freeze in your tracks!

all senses hyper-alert...the old pattern says "jump!"...

but, instinctual...wisdom...learned from scars...over seasons of seasoning...says...

freeze!

the blessing of nothingness, a meditation...

four years she has been coming to therapy...and over that time i have seen a remarkable, yet slow process of change...she's certainly not flashy with drama or exuberance, but, always consistent...

today she says, " i want to talk about what i believe...like i am not sure anymore...i am not even sure i believe in god, or what i used to think was god, anyway"...

so, i think, what now? where, oh where is she going?

years back she had met a guy who promised he knew god...personally...and he would show her how to live, how to pray, what to believe...and god told him she should marry him and they should move out to oregon and live there...she believed him...they moved and the voices he heard became dangerous...he imprisoned her in this oppressive, poverty-stricken, god-fearing life...she, never strong in her life in knowing how to make healthy decisions about school or partners or friends or thinking for herself, fell apart...a long-standing, never diagnosed mental illness exploded and she almost died...was hospitalized, thank god...and found her way back to wyoming, big sky country, to get some help, to heal...

shy, so shy she was, unbelievably shy...and medicated, lethargic, not much energy to even speak...yet, she did speak, slowly, slowly, ever slowly...putting her therapist to sleep sometimes, but always there, always, slowly unraveling her story...she got different meds, began to think more clearly, began to smile sometimes, tease a bit, said no to a job that didn't fit, began to actually speak to her neighbors...even began to challenge some folks about their intrusions into her and her neighbor's lives...

she joined my dream work and spirituality group, was there for a couple of years, then dropped out...too shy, i think, too intrusive in her tender mind...but she kept unfolding in her own quiet way...then, she commented one day, "you remember when you did the meditations in our dream group? when you said, 'imagine, if you are able to believe in god, that god just wants to be with you, to just be with you, to not ask for anything or to want to talk or to want to change you or to pray or to do anything...', do you remember that?" yes, i said..."well, i liked that...i felt peaceful, comforted...and now when i watch those TV preachers, i don't believe them anymore, not like i used to..."

so we explored, slowly, this new place of faith/no faith...of how she is comfortable today in the not knowing...how not knowing is not a place of fear, but a place to explore...a place to find her own knowing, to live with her questions, and answers, if she can find any...a safe, secure place of not knowing...

she peacefully smiles and then leaves...

cry wolf! (exploring a night-time dream)

so, what is it you need to explore, to talk about today? i ask as we both settle in over tea in my consulting room...she seems blunt, almost angry, eyes fierce...at me? i insecurely wonder, silently to myself, of course, hiding behind my doctor's degree...it couldn't be about me, could it? i am the therapist, sorta good, sometimes, i think, i hope...a client angry at me? anchor yourself, i say to me in my head...oh yeah, it is her session, i silently remember...she's offering a sacred projection...

then she blurts out: i want to be able to live without always having to have a man in my life!...oh my, it is about me, sorta, cause i am a man and she hired me, a man, to help her live without a man! oh, the necessary twists and turns of deep psychotherapy...she's brave to say this, certainly desperate...and angry, very angry, which she needs to be for the battle to save her soul...we reflect on previous sessions...how this has been her major theme, her goal...

you want to be able to live without always needing a man? especially the kind of man that you have often had...who end up being losers ( i am kinda blunt, too)...and you end up hurting and disappointed...yes, she firmly states...and we are silent for a while...

somehow, somewhere in this space of wondering...i ask if she has remembered any dreams...well, yes, just the other night i had one...it was stupid and weird...i was with my nephew (she deeply loves her troubled teenage nephew and often is the only adult in his life who truly "sees" him)...and we were in this house and we were looking out the window and we see a wolf running across the pasture toward our house and it kills our dog, rips it, and then it just runs off, back across the pasture...then my nephew and i are suddenly in a camper somewhere, camping in the mountains...we are with a person from work, a friend of mine who is always funny...and my nephew and i are getting ready to go to denver to the airport to take a trip...and that's it...that's the dream!

is this one dream? i wonder, or, as often happens, as dreams get jumbled together in our waking world, is this two separate dreams? no, it is the same dream, she says firmly and with a smile...h-h-h-m-m-m, weird, i agree...

i reflect and project...sometimes wild animals in dreams are about our wild untamed side...and domestic animals are about, well, our domestic side (i'm so brilliantly obvious)...do you dream about wolves often, about animals? no, never...see how weird it was, she says...and this wolf just rips, kills your dog?...and just runs off? yep...

i'm thinking/projecting/wondering...and the camper in the mountains... and going on a trip...this dream is so seemingly disconnected...and yet it has come to you to help you...wild...angry...killing...domestic...camping...do you go camping in waking life? no, never...well, i would sometimes if i was involved with a man and he wanted to...

ohhh, if he wanted to...

we keep reflecting... the word "adventure" comes to me in a kind of weird, pre-concsious way... why?... and what is it about this seemingly cruel wolf killing her dog and just running off? why would a wolf kill a dog?...

how do you have adventure, you know, have fun? well, i don't...i just work and go home, sometimes i go out with my girl friends, never go out alone...i'd go on some trips if the man i was with wanted to, but i'd never go alone...

wow! you never would go on a trip alone? without a man?

no.

so, you want to live your life without always needing a man? and this untamed wild, independent wolf side of you comes and kills your tame, dependent domestic side?

and, when the domestic, dependent side is killed, you are suddenly on a camping adventure with people you love and admire...you are free to take a trip, to fly away...without a man...

h-h-m-mm, nuff said.

button, button, who's got the button?

she's quite and gentle, almost unassuming, as she slowly describes moments of her early childhood...she silently weeps as she remembers the loneliness of being youngest child in a large family...living on a dairy farm in a region of the country that is not known for its dairy farms, an oddity in itself...but the little farm made it, day after day, gallon after gallon...and she, along with her sisters and mom and dad worked hard as only dairy folks know...the farm wasn't her family's, it was rented...her family living on this land, working the cattle, struggling to make any profit for the owner and for her family was difficult... poverty, always just one sick cow away...but, what she remembers most is not the hard work or the hot summer days or the 4am milking in the dead of winter...she remembers being so lonely...the family rules, you know...the unwritten, unspoken rules in the air we breathe...more powerful than any stone-carved commandment...thou shalt not reveal deep feelings of your soul...keep quiet, thou shalt not weep...never let anyone see your pain...do not be real...you will be humiliated by your sisters, criticized, tormented...and scolded by your mother...lonely, normal, secret pain...except, her father...not there very often, always working somewhere...but, he delighted in her, his youngest child...always giving her a tiny bit of special attention...a smile, a private moment, a bit of protection from the harsh elements of the air around her, from the constant ridicule of her older ones...she misses him most...and in the world of unspoken rules, she could never tell him and he could never ask why this little quiet one was so quiet...

she remembers being so little and curious...poverty meant few clothes, fewer toys...isolation...so, she found ways to play...so curious and inventive...that old jar of buttons mom always kept to use to do the obvious repair of third-hand clothing...her tiny hands lifting the large jar, spilling out the buttons on the floor...gazing, studying, touching, spreading the buttons...making a world of friends, button friends...and they visited with each other...the red ones, the grey ones, the white ones...they looked like families, some all alike, some big, some little...some broken, some chipped...so fun!...buttons to swirl and spin...and to talk to...yes, to talk to...like friends, family, secret family...and there was one...one button...a different kind of button than all the rest...an odd shaped button...like me, she thought...and odd button...feeling different, out of place, set apart, alone, odd...holding the odd-shaped button, fingering its shape, grasping, knowing what it feels...

can odd be re-formed into lovely? can odd be trans-formed into unique? can different be admired? can a button be a mirror of a soul?

button, button, who's got the button...?

soul pain

she's in pain...every day it is the same...pain, deep, deep pain...it moves from her back to her neck and head, but mostly, it is the constant, excruciating pain in her back...she walks, though, not well, of course...she tenderly moves from the waiting area to my consulting room...we stop every so often to rest, she grimaces, trys to joke, trys to lighten the short walk, trys not be embarrassed... it doesn't work...she is embarrassed, always...she trys to sit, can only do so for a few moments at a time, trys to not grunt or scream or cry...today she cries...of "the bad days", as she calls them, "this is is a very bad day"...

"i want some tea", she playfully demands, and so, in 90 degree high prairie august, i turn on the tea pot...she always selects "wild berry blast"...she can't quite put the box of tea back in the basket, throws it instead, it bounces to the floor...i, clumsy therapist that i am, reflects that she seems hostile as she throws the box...this too pushy observation makes her defensive and vulnerable...she weeps, silently...says, with a smile, "i'm not hostile!" and, i reflect more...she hasn't heard from the disability folks or doctors..."i have heard from the bill collectors, they know me!"...then, she says,"i did something i shouldn't have done...i went to a trade show in rapid city last weekend...all of that time in a car and walking around looking at the displays wasn't good for me"...she misses her profession, misses her meaning, misses her joy at creating, misses her life..."so, you went to the trade show? was it fun?", i ask..."oh, yes!", she exclaims, "to see all the new products out for the next year was amazing!...but, i shouldn't have gone, i am paying for it now..." "if you did not go, what would you have done?" i ask..."nothin', nothin' ..."so it was good to go?"..."yes! but i hurt so much now..."

"what hurts most...to push yourself physically, take that journey, relieve the pain in your soul by being in your world you love and miss so much or to stay home, be isolated, still hurt, both in body and soul?"

...what price to pay to have joy in your soul?...more pain in your life? which is the greater pain? in your life for pushing? or in your soul if you do not go?

Prairie Song...

She’s singing now. Her pure, melodic voice rises and falls like the crests of ocean waves, waves of sound across our prairie ocean. I lean forward and close my eyes to listen deeply. Singing and sitting in an old Tennessee rocking chair in my office, Mystry (that’s her name) forms easily into her music, as the quivering sadness unique to country and western ballads reverberates around us.

This is her song, her ballad written and sung from her soul. It all began when she was so young, so fresh from God...

She was 11 years old, living in a tiny hamlet on these western plains. That was the last she remembers being a child. She went that day to being 30 years old in the twinkling of an eye...

Her mommy and daddy were struggling in a dying marriage. Suddenly one day, without warning, her daddy said he was going away on a much-needed vacation. “Be back in two weeks.” Mystry did not see him again for seven years. He disappeared into the prairie wind. She never cried, never talked about her broken dreams of a daddy near to hold and bless her. Anxiously though, secretly, everyday, she looked down the long, flat prairie highway, praying that the next truck would be his, bringing her daddy home...

Mystry became a woman that night. Her mother worked three jobs for food, rent, and warmth. Mystry took care of the young ones...they became her babies. The boundary erased between siblings and motherhood.

Mystry turned inward. She locked tight the doors of her soul, sealing off any semblance of pain and sorrow. In her spare time, Mystry became playful and wild. A pattern emerged over her years... loving older men, loving men who would always leave. Then, one day, Mystry gave birth to a daughter as petite and beautiful as she. The baby’s cry became a wake-up call for Mystry, a time to unlock the rusty doors of pain and love...

So, one day after the birth of her baby, Mystry was in her kitchen washing dishes, and, unexpectedly, Mystry began to cry. She could not stop, and did not know why... A week before, her father had called...It was one of those twice-a-year “Gee-I’m-sorry-if-I-ever-hurt-you-see-I-must’ve-done-something-right” kind of calls...

“Yeah, whatever, dad” her heart would say, and she would ignore the call, go and look beautiful again, write more music, pay the rent and find an older guy to warm the lonely night...

Except, this time, this night, Mystry could not stop crying, her broken heart not willing to be silent ever again... Something about an 11-year-old will do that sometimes. Stubborn, maybe.

Mystry sought counseling and in her therapy she began to listen to her internal self, her 11-year-old forgotten child. This child had much to say, much to cry about... It was not the hard work and taking care of babies that hurt so much for this young girl so long ago...it was the continual looking down the long, open, empty, flat prairie highway... Hoping, in the distant shimmer of heat waves, that an old farm truck would emerge...

Her work, her hard, hard task was to become the parent her inner child so longed for, to give the internal "11-year-old", the parent she had lost...not perfectly, not magically, but with grace and understanding for self... and for her new, lovely baby...

Bus Writer

san antonio, tx "dad! wake up! it's 25after7! if we hurry, we'll make the bus at 10till...!" oh yeah...we were going to catch the sunday morning bus at 5:50am, but last night's movie and dinner only ended four and a half hours before that...not a creature was stirring then, not even a dad... "ok!! let's go!" i threw the covers back on this cloudy and misty san antonio sunday morning...threw on my sunday best hiking clothes, grabbed my sunday best back-pack and grabbed my sacred (yes, if you're a guy, you'll know) baseball cap and he grabbed his, and we blew out the door!...the sky is dark, foreboding, going to rain, feel it as close as the air we breathe...humid, muggy, warm and chilly on this urban adventure...gonnna hike the town, the river walk and push north for 7miles through neighborhoods, plain and simple, and beautiful...we start to run to catch the bus...oh no! forgot my cell phone! tore back to the house, grabbed it and ran harder, the half mile to the stop...this is fun, crazy! we are laughing...will we make it? who takes an intentional urban hike and starts off with a half hour bus ride at 7:50am on a sunday morning to city center? "this is crazy, dad!" he's laughing...out of breath, me, not him...we make the bus... then, it happens...without expecting or knowing, it just happens...it's quiet, very quite on the bus...the droan of the diesel engine, almost hypnotic, as we sit in silence, breathing hard, yet calm, satisfied...just a few gather together for this ride...i had barely thought who might be riding with us, or we with them, on this sunday morning...the lady in front of me, two rows down, sleeping, head bobbing hard, knit cap not budging..."she looks wasted", i self-righteously judge... then, a big man, dressed in a casual black suit, tie-less, hair, shiny and slick, gets on, quietly, exuding some sort of peaceful presence (no, really!)... we stop again... who is this, i wonder? a small, "gotta be at least 72 year old woman", i think, wearing a kinda bad reddish wig, carrying a huge black purse, pulls out a book as she sits..."cool", i think, she uses time like this to read..."good choice", i bless her, 'cause i would do that, too! every day, if i could...h-h-m-m-m-m...but, what is the book? i am nosy on this ride, i know, just a nebraska boy in the big, very big city and, maybe goofly, intrigued by this ride...i strain to spy on her book...no, not her! is this true? i smile, it l-o-o-k-s l-i-k-e, ian fleming...you know! james bond! is this true?! i hope so! you go girl! where DOES she go in her amazing mind, at her amazing age with this amazing adventure? i wanna go, too! ...and then, a mommy and her 8ish, impish, little girl gets on...the little one pops around trying to find her best seat for today's ride, the "just right seat", ignoring her mommy's mild directions to sit with her...finally, she does and they settle in...all pretty in pink, her ribbons and dress, and she writes in her tablet and sings loud mexican pinata songs, doing all the gestures and movements, eyes dancing, mommy gently trying to shush her, and, always failing, thank god!...dance, little girl, dance! keep those laughing eyes dancing forever! we're there! we jump off the bus..."we have to hike to the very beginning of the river walk, where it starts on the south, by the gunther house, we will start there", he says, so, no walking/hiking will officially count til then...ok, add an unofficial mile...we walk past intriguing old buildings, he likes the architecture and wonders what is inside..."did you know, a bowling alley is in there, on the second floor?" wow, a nothing-looking building holding a secret bowling alley...we rush past a bus stop... i see a very elderly couple waiting for a bus...we have to walk around them a bit, he, bent over, in a wheel chair, she, sitting on the bench, wearing a bright bandanna around her head...our eyes meet...i want to warmly say "good morning", and do, and walk briskly by...each returns the greeting...and then, fifty feet past, she calls out to me, a blessing..."god bless you!", her voice joyously smiles in hispanic lilt...i turn, smile, clasp my hands in a prayer grasp, walk back-wards for a few steps, and bow slightly, "and, to you..." i say... blessings this every-day...

MIRRORS OF THE SOUL: i miss mr. rogers in the world...

i miss mr. rogers in the world...

(in honor of his 80th birthday, march 20, 2008)

so, i was in my teens, seems like...maybe coming in for dinner (that's noon down on the farm!)...i remember sitting on some chair, unlacing my work boots, hungry, like only a farm teen can be...the overwhelming aroma of mom's cooking filling every corner of our home...me, now feeling a sudden laziness, being hypnotized by the gods of fried chicken, mashed potatoes and very thick gravy...i'm staring at the tv...my baby sister, just three years old or so, sitting on the floor, cross-legged, her face just a few inches from the tv...she's answering, out loud, a question mr. rogers has just asked her...yes, out loud she answers and talks to him in her sweet, tiny voice...i am torn between being enchanted by this mystery, touched deeply that this tiny human baby is genuinely visiting with, quite possibly, her closest friend and neighbor out here on the prairie...and, i, alternately, am wanting to, in normal teen cynicism, laugh a sarcastic burst at my sister for being taken in by such a stupid thing! but, thank god, i am quiet for long moments...then, i say, in a raised voice, to my mom who is still in the kitchen cooking, "hey, did you know she's talking to mr. rogers?"..."yes, uh-huh...she does that a lot"...and my baby sister does not even hear us talking...lost in conversation with this gentle, human man...

i miss mr. rogers in the world...i left the farm a couple of years later, certainly not certain of my calling or manhood, as i went to far-away college in far-away state...i believe, though, that the man in the tv invited me to know, just a bit, about being a different kind of man...a different kind of manly man...who knows, really, what influences we carry one from one another? who knows, really, from where our inner self comes? who knows, really, how and when the shifts and nudges of our formation of our self take place and change us forever?

i met one, two, three such men in my formation of man-self...one, when i was about fifteen, a teacher of elementary children, an artist, a kind and, sort of depressive man, who was playful and humorous with religion, drama and talked of existential angst...then, in college, a kind, compassionate, creative man, a minister, who, above all, for me, was the most amazing listener i have ever know...and then, in seminary, a lovely, mustached, bold, yet, quiet man, who terrified me with inspiration of very wild theological concepts and ideas...these men, mirrors, reflected back to me my projections of man-self...

so, some years later, i am a daddy...living on an acreage in indiana, remembering farm life, going to a local farm supply store and buying a warm, flannel shirt-jacket...wearing it for years and years and years, on any chilly day...it became, dubbed by me, my mr rogers jacket, 'cause i seemed to always put in on after my work day, coming home, a little more relaxed, being with my babies...except it wasn't a sweater, like his, or red, like his...it was green and blue and flannel...and now, it is so worn, frayed on the elbows, threads and material slowly disintegrating, hanging in the hallway...and, yet, how it worked...to remind me of manhood...

i saw, one time, my adult son, wear it...and i saw, another time, in his home, that he had his own flannel shirt-jacket...perhaps, a circle of life...

i miss mr. rogers in the world...

Mirrors of the Soul: "Is Lent A Mistake, Jesus?"

do we focus on your death and miss your life, jesus?

it is easier, you know, to think about you dying,

to think about all your sacrifices as coming from some divine pre-formed plan

than to think that it was simple, tragic, brutality of our humanity.

what if you hadn’t died, jesus?

what if you had just grown old, and wiser; what if you had had a family, even had babies!

would we remember you?

maybe.

we are told that if we focus on imitating some of your sacrifices during the lenten season,

we will appreciate the magnitude of your death. maybe we would feel enough guilt to worship you?

is that what this is all about? to worship you?

do we ever think about your humanity, just your humanity?

and the adventure of your life? do we ever meditate upon the love of life that you may have had?

sometimes, jesus, i think about your high risk choices, your playfulness with children, your

ability to have deep, vulnerable friendships with beautiful, diverse and insecure folks.

how did you do that? i want to know! i want to be able to be that real, that carefree, that

courageous to cast my fate to the wind and just…live…live!

so what if it means i die. doesn’t the fear of death keep us from living?

doesn’t the fear of death keep us from taking risks?

doesn’t the fear of death keep us from being adventurous?

maybe that is what your life is about…just a man, a beautiful man who simply lived his integrity;

who simply lived who he was…

VENUS RISING II

"She has a friend!", someone said to me, "Venus has a friend!" and, now, in the early, pre-dawn hours, it is true. I saw it earlier last week, this "new star" joining the bright, pulsating, orange/white light of Venus. This inspired me. What/"who" was this?

Well, I checked www.space.com and discovered the "who" is Jupiter, no less! These two planets reflecting our sun, together in the pre-dawn darkness. So prominent on the eastern horizon, "ya can't miss it!". Plus, the information read of a most unusual extra event: the partial crest of the moon will join them on February 4 in a display creating, of all things, an isosceles triangle! Great! Geometry-in-the-Sky!

Who would've thought? Is there play in this universe? In you? Is there music in your soul? Is there whimsy in your heart?

(Get up early for once, will ya?)

Mirrors of the Soul: a blog to explore our stories, prayers, reflections and dreams...

A Christmas Prayer:

Away in Your Manger

i was raised on a farm,

on a beautiful, arid, prairie landscape.

i never grew tired, jesus, of deeply gazing

and daydreaming upon the vastness of the sky and hills

surrounding our home.

i prayed often to you, in wonder and awe,

from the arms of a giant old cottonwood tree,

a forever friend,

now dying due to winds and lightening bolts

and just age and life,

like all of us.

we had a barn, jesus,

a cool red and white barn filled with odors of barn stuff,

you know, dirt, straw, piss and poop from the years of rescuing baby calves from blizzards,

baby pigs nursing momma hog,

and a horse or two living there from time to time.

it was fun, jesus, to climb around in the barn and discover forgotten, ancient tools

of other eras and times,

sneezing the dust surely left over from the great american depression.

we had a manger.

yep. we had a genuine official manger!

my brother and sisters and cousins would leap over the manger,

vaulting over it, to show it could be done.

it was real holy, jesus, as holy as any sacred place could be…

for many years we would find momma cat hiding and giving birth to her kittens

in the manger.

i would, of course, wonder if this was like the place in which you were born.

i don’t mean to offend, but of all the moments in your life, jesus, of all the beautiful, terrifying,

tragic, brave, courageous, lonely, amazing moments the one that touches me most deeply

is that you were born in a place that is most like our soul…

dank, dark, dirty, smelly.

i never like anyone, especially some god, sniffing around my soul,

listening to the haunting whispers in my manger.

paranoid fears of shame, justified or not, overwhelms and

scares me to death…

but you came without any pretense, jesus,

without any sense of seeking to humiliate for our deepest and darkest sins,

real or imagined.

you came as a vulnerable, tender, touchable baby

in a dank, dark, dirty, smelly manager.

will we ever get it?

grace in our manger.

Mirrors of the Soul: A Winter's Prayer: Venus Rising

The following prayer and meditation emerged early one morning prior to sunrise. The prairie sky, clear, without clouds or moon and only the brilliant just-before-dawn light of Venus rising in the east. And so, I wondered, does the Creator notice these tiny moments of creation, perhaps, through our eyes, experiencing a moment of wonder and beauty?

venus rising

good morning god,

early this morning, unable to sleep, i glanced at the eastern horizon and saw

venus rising

across the rugged canyons, beyond the open prairie, barely above the ponderosa pines

the brilliant orange/white light touched her sister earth…

and me.

do you know of this, god? do you see what i see?

does venus rising

touch you, too?

i wonder about the wonder, the vastness of T’unjkasila , the Lakota words for

all that is…

i wonder about you, the all that is…

can a tiny moment of light, a simple reflection of the sun bouncing off a piece of planetary

rock

delight you? the all that is,

like it delights me?

does venus rising

inspire you, change you, make you see and feel a moment of wonder?

i hope so, god, that

venus rising

touches you, makes you feel the wonder of all that is

and reflects the oneness of you, me and all…